DOH!
I was actually doing env FLAVOR
S='no_bz2 no_curl no_dba no_dbase no_gmp no_imap no_ldap no_mcrypt no_mhash no_mysql no_ncurses no_odbc no_pgsql no_snmp no_soap no_sybase_ct no_xmlrpc
no_xsl' make
Because, well, I did a make show=FLAVOR
S before that, which shows all available FLAVOR
S. So for actually building the port you want FLAVOR without the S instead.
Thanks for the help it has build the packages I want now!!