I am running out of ideas ...... Only next weekend I have time to see if I can get it running between a Linux box and OpenBSD. If you cannot wait that long you could try to google for an answer or post on the OpenBSD misc mailing list.
BTW it is normal that the IP address of an interface does not show up in the routing table i.e.:
Code:
$ ifconfig re0re0: flags=8843<UP,BROADCAST,RUNNING,SIMPLEX,MULTICAST> mtu 1500
lladdr 00:19:db:47:b0:4c
priority: 0
groups: egress
media: Ethernet autoselect (100baseTX full-duplex,rxpause,txpause)
status: active
inet 192.168.222.20 netmask 0xffffff00 broadcast 192.168.222.255
inet6 fe80::219:dbff:fe47:b04c%re0 prefixlen 64 scopeid 0x2
$ netstat -rn -f inet
Routing tables
Internet:
Destination Gateway Flags Refs Use Mtu Prio Iface
default 192.168.222.10 UGS 7 27112 - 8 re0
127/8 127.0.0.1 UGRS 0 0 33160 8 lo0
127.0.0.1 127.0.0.1 UH 1 0 33160 4 lo0
192.168.222/24 link#2 UC 1 0 - 4 re0
192.168.222.10 00:08:c7:05:ca:0b UHLc 1 1643 - 4 re0
224/4 127.0.0.1 URS 0 0 33160 8 lo0
Only the default gateway, (192.168.222.10) and the 192.168.222.0/24 network show.
Blame the more 2000 spambots that I had to deal with since the 5th of January