Code:
pass in quick on $ext_if2 reply-to ($ext_if2 $ext_gw2) proto tcp from any to ($ext_if2) port 8081 keep state (floating)
This line alone pretty much did it. I had if-bound on still and this didnt work with it so... More problems when i didn't notice that there was some DHCP problem on ISP end and my IP was changed (Has been the same for since i got it) and stuff like that.
Anyway a nice lesson again how things work for me, the harder it is the better you remember :-)
Thanks again everybody.