Sorry if I wrote that poorly. I'm on cable... not dialup. Which is why I said bout being connected from router and having to connect directly from the modem. :s
I've so far
Cd /usr
Ftp
ftp://ftp.openbsd.org/pub/OpenBSD/4.3/ports.tar.gz
Tar zxf ports.tar.gz
There isn't any content obviously so I believe that's why its taking soooo long to install kde.