[gustaf]

I see you are running pkg_add -u. When you are finished, can you re-post the output of
$ doas pkg_delete -a -n?

You might also want to run pkg_check(1) to check the consistency of your installed packages. When finished, the output should tell you something about the state of your installed packages. If you get error messages like "can't read file", you will need to use doas(1) to gain the necessary privileges. Type your password at the prompt and the command should begin running:

$ pkg_check -inv

Packing-list sanity: ok
Direct dependencies: ok
Reverse dependencies: ok
Files from packages: ok
--- dbus-daemon-launch-helper-1.10.22 -------------------
can't read /usr/local/libexec/dbus-daemon-launch-helper

$ doas pkg_check -inv
doas (gustaf@thinkpadX220t.local) password:

Packing-list sanity: ok
Direct dependencies: ok
Reverse dependencies: ok
Files from packages: ok