That attitude of both parties is a quite a bit antiquated.
You do not hear of women saying,
Originally Posted by woman who does not exist
Look here, Jose, you're going to need to put on this skirt because the girls and I are distracted by your manly buns and hairy pecs. There's no way a man can work in the fashion industry unless he dresses like a woman.
If a man has trouble working around women because he views them as a sex object, he needs to go to the men's room and relieve some of that stress.
I am not sorry for being crass.