It seems that /etc/soii.key is built by rc(8) when making keys (first boot):
Code:
if [[ ! -f /etc/soii.key ]]; then
openssl rand -hex 16 > /etc/soii.key &&
chmod 600 /etc/soii.key && sysctl -q \
"net.inet6.ip6.soiikey=$(</etc/soii.key)"
fi
It can be recreated easily.